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Women in cat fight aboard bus

According to AsiaOne News:

A cat fight between two women on board bus 88 was captured on video and sent to STOMP on Nov 23.

One woman in a micro-mini skirt was filmed shoving, clawing and pulling the hair of another middle-aged woman in black while shouting at her angrily in Chinese “How dare you say I look like a prostitute”.

Subsequently, the other commuters in the bus were roused by the commotion and attempted to stop the fight. Even the bus driver had to intercede, stopping the bus and telling the women to stop fighting.

Read the full article at AsiaOne News:

- Currently, I noticed some of my friend do sometimes make similar comments very near to the person they are commenting about.

Usually I will scold them straight in the face for being insensitive about their remarks and ask them not to say so “direct” and this may one day be their own undoing.

Problems encountered

  1. Insensitive remarks made too near to “target”
  2. Rude behavior not tolerated and result in cat fight and possibly violence
  3. Unexpected drama unfold in public captured on video shared in the Internet

Possible Solutions suggested by me

  1. Don’t make such remarks and don’t stare too
  2. If cannot resist making such remarks…wait until it’s far far away from “target”
  3. Stop your friends from making such comments and try to change their habits.
  4. Put a sign in public that cat fights in public transportation are prohibited and any violators will be fined $2000 for first offense or Jail up to 5 years depending on who is right or wrong.
  5. Put a CCTV on all public transport for legal actions.
  6. Video on CCTV will be automatically appear live online at the highest quality for all to see with special director cut and interviews of people involve. No need public to take video…haha
  7. Finally, if video receive high number of view get the people involved to sign up as Mediacorp “Care-Leh-Fare” (spare) actors.

Categories: Complaints - Singapore
  • Ruiquan
    Simon, what are some of the ways to encourage fellow Singaporeans to accept people from other countries and their cultures. Comments like that are certainly unacceptable and it put us Singaporean to shame.
  • Simon Tay
    Unfortunately it’s pretty hard to stop people from talking or commenting or murmuring bad thoughts about others.

    The only way to clear bad vibes is to require both hands to clap.

    This need very much the help of foreigners to merge with Singaporeans in all levels to better integrate them.

    I have colleagues from Vietnam and Malaysia and I made effort to talk to them in the common language English so that nobody will feel left out.

    I even try to learn some of their languages ….simple words like “beautiful”, “I want”, “yes”, “no” and some jokes…will make things more easier.

    Singaporean need to align with people from overseas and align doesn’t mean agreeing with them…but as long everyone achieve the same goal…prosperity, health, love, equality and possibly a better life.

    However, this may not calm the problems of fear or hatred by people who themselves or family members losing jobs to cheaper workers from overseas.

    There are more and more people out there jobless because being replaced by workers who don’t mind getting lower pay then Singaporeans and eventually there won’t be any rich Singaporean….anymore.

    I am pro-unity to foreigners but I do accept that there will be a problem in the near future as jobs will be hard to come by…in Singapore.

    Jobless Singaporean will display more public displeasure to fellow PR or visitors from overseas due to the fact of survivability and misconception unless the Government make a effort to calm the locals to give them proper jobs and better policies to benefit Singaporeans.
  • Ruiquan
    Simon, your colleagues are from Vietnam and Malaysia so they are more to Southeast Asia. I am referring to those from China, India, Sri Lanka, Bangledash. Those who stay in living quarters. How to intergrate them to mix with Singaporeans besides asking them to learn English. Your colleagues from Vietnam especially, do you actually go out with them and understand more of their culture and festivals?
  • Simon Tay
    The key to integration is communication. We talked and compare belief, hobbies, food and more.

    You will be surprised that there are many things that we are very much in common.

    Our fear, taste of food or craving for technology.

    Some have different stand in different issues but as long we can align with each other instead of disagreeing…or outright arguing.

    Step back and look at ourselves and we share suggestions to improve status quo instead of holding grudges.

    Those who stay in living quarters who supposedly work as lower income workers such as cleaners, study mama, construction workers, movers, rubbish collectors, aluminum can collectors, tree planters, grass cutters and many other manual labors are part and parcel of Singapore unique work force.

    Without them, we shall be the same as other countries…who don't have the green & clean environment and end up like rubbish dumps.

    I hold a certain respect for these workers and will assist them when they are in need not out of pity but with honor.

    They just need certain change in their public manners and behaviors to gain acceptance by the general population.

    Personally, I am free thinker hence festival or culture is not important to me but what is important is respect, trust and friendship.

    We should treat everyone like friends instead of outcast.

    This living quarters or bunks are seriously eroding the integration of these workers with the public because they are all grouped into one single unit and unacceptable behaviors became acceptable within their group and becomes harder to change.

    Things like sitting on the floor at MRT, talking rudely and loudly, violent attacks at anyone who complain at them, illegal trades like selling smuggled smokes or VCDs/DVDs, drugs, drinking at void decks, littering, dirty toilet hygiene like squatting at toilet seats making the SEAT dirty, prostitution, cheat or scam people hard earn money and many other unpleasant behaviors that most locals "THINK" that these people are associated with.

    However, I do believe anyone can do the above regardless of their nationality hence cannot really blame these people at all.

    The times are very bad now so we should actually work TOGETHER to resolve our differences to achieve similar goals which is to survive, prosperity, happiness and health.
  • Ruiquan
    In your point of view, what do you think about foreigners especially those that came from 3rd world countries having the same benefits as Singaporeans ? For example, we have baby bonus, CPF, 14 days annual leaves, 13th month bonus, do you think they should be getting it too since the pay they get is much lower.
  • Simon Tay
    The question is how loyal will they be when crisis strikes.

    1. Will they return to their own country?

    2. Will they stay and fight for their citizenship?

    It's pretty hard to determine what they might do.

    What I feel is all who are Permanent Residents or Local Singaporean should enjoy the same benefits.

    Those in the process of waiting for approval of citizenship should have ways to contribute back to Singapore to get the PR status for the same benefits.

    Those who violate the laws in Singapore does not gain my respect or their rights to have the same treatment by the government, corporation and people.

    This however depends on their citizenship status.

    Employment pass holder & Work permit holders unfortunately need time to gain citizenship to get similar benefits.

    The challenge now is to retain Singaporean talents age 30 to 55 from migrating overseas with all their CPF money.

    The social challenges is great as more and more inequalities and differences felt in public and in their jobs.

    My personal perspective is there are less Singaporean then foreigners in public right now and soon be totally run over by foreigners.

    Singaporeans have to join them as part of the international society or face the situation of being the minority of our own country.

    There should be more integration, socialize, mix-nationalities marriages and fair treatment of PR & Singaporeans.

    For those who comes here to fight for citizenship should know the challenges and work hard for the chance to stay here.

    Obviously, the future in Singapore will be harder during crisis but there is still hope.

    The problems is how will the foreigners change the social integration of the generally mild mannered population of Singapore?

    The stress and depression level will increase over time and the mix of more foreign beliefs their ways to resolve problems in their own methods may means more challenges ahead.

    Singaporean generally don't do illegal stuff but that also means taking less risk to be innovative.

    Singapore government is the key component in creating such behavior by setting too much regulation, licenses and laws to curb risk taking.

    The influx of foreigners may change that limitation in the near future.
  • Ruiquan
    I don’t think loyalty plays a factor in determining a citizenship or enjoying the benefits. Even thought you are a Singaporean, will you run away if there’s a crisis here. A lot of factors to consider if citizenship or PR are presented to the people.

    Let’s go back to the topic of us accepting for foreigners in Singapore. As much as they have to change to adapt to our environment, we ourselves must change to accept theirs as well. My idea is to hold a big food convention in Expo or Suntec to bring in the food culture from different countries. Can include things like peformance, arts, handicrafts etc. This way we can understand them better.

    Another way is to ask the foreigners to post feebacks or suggestions on how a Singaporean can make them feel at home.
  • benny
    Singaporeans are indeed pampered.

    Please read my forum,

    http://forums.asiaone.com/showthread.php?t=16102#8
  • Anonymous
    Dear Blog Owner and Readers, please spare a thought for some of the foreign workers here in Singapore. Yesterday terrorist attack in Mumbai cause many to worry about their family and friends back home. It’s time we start to help them and console them if needed.
  • Simon Tay
    I do agreed that we should integrate with any nationality and embrace them as our own.

    In times of crisis, there are nobody different as we are of the same race – human.

    Let’s be sensitive and help each other in such crisis and dark ages.

    Let’s also pray for the safety of all the people in Mumbai.
  • benny
    Since all of you are talking about Singaporeans accepting people from other countries and cultures, may I know your views on the below subject posted a few days ago on school results.(http://www.asiaone.com/News/Education/Story/A1Story20081128-104088.html)